Emotional Hygiene

I just used a bidet for the first time. If me saying that reads as TMI (too much information), that proves the point that there are some kinds of hygiene we under-privilege and under-normalize in the United States. In Europe, say the word “bidet” and it’s as if you said “sink” or “shower.” (Image source) Next…

Time to Celebrate

I’ve had the pleasure of attending two parties this past year that were hosted by City Arts Magazine here in Seattle. Most recently, the “2016 Future List Party” was held in the newly renovated, historic King Street Station. Music flowed as some of the most stylish people I have seen in town circled the floor enjoying freely delicious…

Doing the Work

There’s a framework (pictured right, source) known as the four stages of learning, four stages of competence, competence hierarchy, or the learning continuum. It presents the idea that humans can move in four stages from being unskilled to skilled–incompetent to competent. Moving from left to right: unconscious incompetence (not knowing what you don’t know), conscious incompetence (knowing you don’t know, but not knowing…